A dildo is an excellent tool to explore sexual penetration and arousal. However, before you use a dildo, it is important to know how to use it properly to get the most out of your sex experience.
First, figure out what kind of penetration you want – slow, fast, deep, or smooth. After that, you can start experimenting with different sex positions and angles to see how they feel for you.
Choose Your Dildo With Care
Dildos are one of the most popular sex toys. They come in all shapes, sizes, colors, materials and designs and can be a great addition to your collection or your partner’s. However, choosing the perfect dildo can be daunting. Thankfully, there are some simple things you can do to make your shopping experience a little easier and ensure you get a dildo that’s right for you.
Firstly, you’ll need to identify what material your dildo is made of. Some are made of soft skin, also known as cyberskin or ultra skin, while others are made of silicone. You can tell the difference by how they feel and if they have a hard or soft core.
Another important thing to consider when shopping for a dildo is its size and texture. You want to choose something that is going to be comfortable and not too bulky or rough on your vagina. This is especially true if you’re a first timer and have never used a dildo before.
A good place to start is by assessing how thick you want it to be. This will help you avoid buying a toy that’s too thick or too thin for your body, which can be uncomfortable and potentially dangerous.
If you’re using a dildo to penetrate your vagina, it’s important to choose a material that’s safe for human use (like silicone), advises Goody Howard, M.S.W., M.P.H., a sexologist and sexual health educator who teaches at the University of California Los Angeles School of Medicine. It’s also important to purchase a dildo with a flared base that doesn’t accidentally fall into your vagina while you’re playing with it, she says.
Finally, it’s also important to remember that girth matters. If you buy a dildo that’s too thick or too narrow for your vagina, it can be painful, according to Goody Howard.
While there is no such thing as a wrong dildo, you should always choose a toy that’s right for you. Everyone’s tastes are very different, and what works for your friends or the actors in a porn flick might not work for you. Taking the time to select your dildo carefully will allow you to find a dildo that fits you and your partner perfectly, which means a more pleasurable experience for both of you.
Inserting the Dildo
Whether you’re trying out a new sex toy for the first time or you just want to see if a dildo is right for you, it’s important to insert it properly. The dildo should be inserted into the vagina with your hand (not your bare fingers!) and then eased in and out.
To begin, spread lube over the top of the shaft using your finger and then rim the vaginal opening with your index & middle fingers. Then, push the shaft into your vagina slowly to help spread the lubricant evenly throughout the shaft.
Once the dildo is inserted, try to touch it gently and sensuously around your genitals until you feel a good connection with it. This will also help you to get comfortable with it and ease your mind so that you can enjoy it in the best way possible!
Next, use the dildo to stimulate your G-spot or anterior fornix erogenous zone. These areas are found deeper inside the vagina near your cervix, and they respond to pressure much more quickly than the outer labia.
This is where a long dildo with a curved tip will come in handy! You can even use the dildo to stimulate the A-spot, but be sure not to press too hard on the cervix, as this could potentially hurt you.
Experiment with different speeds and strokes by moving the dildo back and forth, in circles, or side to side. Do you prefer quick shallow strokes or longer, deep thrusts?
Another technique is to twist the dildo. Some people find this helps to increase the intensity of their clitoral stimulation. Others like to ‘circle’ the dildo while it’s inside to hit all the walls of your internal organs.
Finally, be sure to clean your dildo thoroughly with a chemical-free soap after each use. Soaps can leave a coating on sex toys, which can transfer to your vagina or anus during play and cause discomfort.
Unlike other sex toys, dildos are predominantly penetrative products designed to be used inside the vagina or anus. They’re also a safe option for women with sensitive skin, says Di Mattos.
Rocking the Dildo
Dildos are a traditional sex toy that can be used for both masturbation and with partners. They are often made of silicone and are meant to be inserted into the vagina or anus for penetration, stimulation, or both.
Dildos come in a variety of sizes, shapes and colors. Some have a removable tip, while others are strapped on or double-ended. Some even have a vibrating head that can be turned on or off.
Before you insert a dildo, make sure that it’s clean. It should be cleaned with antimicrobial soap, or you can also use a towel to wipe it down. This will help to reduce bacteria, germs, and odors that can make your experience unpleasant.
While you’re cleaning, be sure that you get into all of the areas on your dildo that may be prone to infections, like the tip or the shaft. Depending on the type of material that your dildo is made from, you may want to use a different cleanser for those areas than for other parts of the dildo.
Once your dildo is clean, you can start using it! Remember to apply some lube on it before you use it, especially for anal penetration. This will help to keep the dildo in place while you’re masturbating and avoid chafing during your erotic romp.
A dildo can be used for both vaginal and anal pleasure, so it’s important to choose one that’s long, wide and curved enough to reach the spots you want to use it for. For example, a dildo that’s long, slender and curved will be ideal for the g-spot or p-spot, while a shorter, wider and curved dildo will be better suited to the entrance.
In order to ensure that you’re enjoying the full experience, try playing with your dildo by yourself before using it with a partner. This will help you to get comfortable with the feel of the toy, which will also make your sex experience more pleasurable for both of you.
You can also rock the dildo during your sex to ensure that your orgasm is as close to reality as possible. You can do this by rubbing it on the floor or by attaching it to a wall and moving it in an M-shape.
Maintaining the Dildo
The life of any sex toy is determined by the care and maintenance it receives. A sex toy that is not cleaned properly can become contaminated with bodily fluids, which can cause infection and other health issues.
To keep your dildo in good working order, it should be thoroughly cleaned before and after every use. It is also important to ensure that it is stored in a dry place and is not exposed to moisture or other environmental factors.
When cleaning a dildo, it is best to use warm water and antibacterial soap. This helps to remove any dirt or debris that may be trapped beneath the dildo’s surface. Once the dildo is clean, it can be rinsed with warm water and dried to prevent the dildo from getting damp or absorbing bacteria and other germs.
Another option is to soak the dildo in a solution of 10 parts water to one part bleach. This will help to kill any fungus, viruses or other bacteria that may have grown underneath the dildo’s surface.
You can also sanitize your dildo with isopropyl alcohol wipes or a rubbing alcohol solution. This is a cheaper option than using a UV sanitizer.
Some dildos are made from non-porous materials, such as silicone, glass, pyrex and stainless steel. These materials are generally safe for rigorous cleaning, but you should still use the same procedures as for porous dildos.
If your dildo is made from rubber, latex or soft-coated plastic, you can clean it with warm water and a sex toy cleaner. This can be a little time-consuming, but it will keep the dildo clean and increase its lifespan.
It is also a good idea to wrap the dildo in a facecloth before storing it. This will ensure that the dildo’s surfaces do not melt together and also protect it from scratches, dents or tears.
Lastly, it is important to make sure that your dildos are kept out of reach of children and other animals when not in use. This is because dildos can be easily contaminated with bodily fluids, and this can cause infections that could lead to serious health problems.
